Leave a CommentShare: |
Subscribe
;

I have no idea what I’m doing.
Here are the problems:
1) She’s wild. I can’t control her.
2) She’s bumping BP’s udder so hard, she’s hurting her.
If it weren’t for #2, I’d be tempted to just put her back with BP, let her be wild another month or two (I mean, she’s wild already, what’s another month or two), then catch her and go through what I’m going through now (albeit with an even larger calf). As it is, BP’s sore is healing (there’s a big scab on it now), and if I put Glory Bee back with her, BP is going to end up with a bloody udder and maybe mastitis. Is this normal for a two-month-old calf to be that hard on its mother? Is Glory Bee bigger and stronger because she’s half Brown Swiss? I understand that beef calves are often left with their mothers for six months, but protecting a beef cow’s udder isn’t on the same level of critical as protecting a dairy cow’s udder.
I didn’t really want to start milking BP twice a day already, nor did I want to take Glory Bee away from her this early, but I’m afraid to put Glory Bee back with her. I can’t stop Glory Bee from hitting her udder so hard.
So that takes me back to what to do with Glory Bee. Thank you so much for all the comments with advice! Sometimes it’s confusing because the suggestions are wide-ranging and sometimes opposing, but I need to hear it all. I’ve tried to look at what seems to be the most common advice combined with what I’m capable of doing in our current set-up. I can’t do a whole lot about changing our set-up at the moment, and I also can’t take back the mistake of not getting Glory Bee to take a bottle or drink from a bucket earlier. I can’t seem to get her to take milk from me now. One suggestion was to mix it with calf starter to make a sort of mash, and I’m going to try that today. She does love the calf starter and eats it eagerly. She also eats hay, and will drink water from a bucket.
Today, we got her tied out to a tree again, differently so that hopefully she can’t break away from the rope. She’s tied shorter, and tied high. Though she did have enough rope to walk around the tree so she’s kinda tied low now even though she was tied high. (Sigh. This is a work in progress.) She’s right out in front of the house so I can check on her frequently.

She’s not real happy.

I’m going to bring her food and water, and sit with her, then take it away. Rinse and repeat throughout the day so that she sees me as her food source.
More suggestions? Have I mentioned I don’t know what I’m doing?
Goal: I want a docile milk cow who can be walked when needed and who will come to me rather than run away.
I’m trying to get the darling 4-H’er, Amanda, to come over this weekend or sometime early next week to give me some tips on how she works with her calves. (Amanda? AMANDA!)
Posted by Suzanne McMinn on November 17, 2010Registration is required to leave a comment on this site. You may register here. (You can use this same username on the forum as well.) Already registered? Login here.
Discussion is encouraged, and differing opinions are welcome. However, please don't say anything your grandmother would be ashamed to read. If you see an objectionable comment, you may flag it for moderation. If you write an objectionable comment, be aware that it may be flagged--and deleted. I'm glad you're here. Welcome to our community!
If you would like to help support the overhead costs of this website, you may donate. Thank you!
"It was a cold wintry day when I brought my children to live in rural West Virginia. The farmhouse was one hundred years old, there was already snow on the ground, and the heat was sparse-—as was the insulation. The floors weren’t even, either. My then-twelve-year-old son walked in the door and said, “You’ve brought us to this slanted little house to die." Keep reading our story....
Make friends, ask questions, have fun!
Be a part of something big.
Prints and Free Wallpaper!
"Cookies are good." Read my barnyard stories....
Entire Contents © Copyright 2004-2012 ChickensintheRoad.com.
Text and photographs may not be published, broadcast, redistributed or aggregated without express permission. Thank you.
8:22
am
8:33
am
8:37
am
I’ve seen a friend have amazing success with clicker training. She’s trained dogs, ferrets, horses and probably everyone in her family with the clicker. It might help make your communication with GB clearer to her.
8:42
am
One step at a time.
The calf bumping her hard will not cause mastitis. Mastitis is caused from bacteria enter the teat canal from the opening. Period.
I have know a cow injured by the calf bumping her agressively.
The sore is caused because of either GB’s sharp teeth or chapping from the slobbers drying in colder weather. I use udder balm of some sort in the winter time.
If you want to be able to lead GB and gentle her I would keep up with that tying process. It will take a while…….
If you are serious about bottle feeding her. Here is my technique…understand it was with three-day old babies. Back them into a corner, straddle them and put the bottle into their mouth….once the milk trickles, normally they will begin to nurse.
(may have to wait for the next calf on this routine).
Training to the bucket (which I really don’t like). Dip your fingers into the milk bucket, let GB suck on them if she will, then slowly lower your hand into the bucket with her sucking the fingers the whole time….gently withdraw fingers….sometimes this also takes a while but can be done.
If it were me and I didn’t want to milk each day twice a day or spend money for very expensive milk replacer I would allow the calf to nurse in the evenings or even mornings when I didn’t need the milk.
Can you lead BP? That would make it easier, but if not, she should come to the baby eagerly. Let her in, allow the calf to nurse. Attach lead to BP to tie her up while the calf is nursing.
Remove BP from calf lot. Dry her udder and apply udder balm to sore teats. Then give baby her grain. They are still excited and in the eating mode and will usually jump right on it.
It would make it easier on you, if GB had a separate pen from the other animals at least during nursing and/or eating. Maybe cattle panels or a hot wire.
I leave the calves on Willow until she is ready to turn dry. By then just allowing one calf to nurse. It makes for really healthy calves….remember most beef calves are not weaned until the are 7 months old. If you do that you will save on your grain bill greatly. I would still give some grain, but very little.
A young calf should not be weaned until it is eating at least 2 lbs. of calf starter daily.
Hope this all makes sense. I wish I live down the holler and I would help in person. I love the milk cows/calves and the whole process…………as long as it doesn’t take over my life!
8:47
am
I wish I had advice for you, but I’m just a city slicker.
8:54
am
8:55
am
9:37
am
9:41
am
9:44
am
9:45
am
9:58
am
That stuff smells good enough, I would like it.
10:03
am
10:40
am
10:42
am
10:45
am
10:59
am
11:07
am
Your much larger problem is taming her, it sounds like she is a wild girl. But don’t worry people have tamed larger breeds than her and lived through it. Have you ever been face to face with a Holstein? lol. Your idea of associating you with her food, and making you the only source of that food is a good one.
11:14
am
(not to make light of what you’re going through at all, but sometimes it’s good to start over if all the other suggestions don’t pan out)
11:37
am
I am no help, I am looking for a source of my own cows now (Beef and Dairy)I wont be getting them until spring when we can erect some new fencing…..awesome, awesome, awesome posts!!
You are amazing and strong and you will persevere!!! Hugs!!
11:38
am
11:40
am
11:44
am
If it’s feasible, I would also move BP down the road if possible -just for a bit – to get her out of GB’s line of sight during the day. That may be too much though.
This is my opinion based on the advice of some of your readers plus what I’ve read on the internet. NOT personal experience.. so take with a grain of salt;)
11:47
am
11:47
am
11:59
am
12:25
pm
12:34
pm
12:41
pm
12:46
pm
12:48
pm
My only experience has been years ago with my mare & her filly, so I don’t have a lot of calf advise. I know when we halter trained my filly we tied to to a tree with a much shorter rope. (3-4 ft at the most, tied at about her eye level…you don’t want her to get a leg over it & get tripped up or tangled/hurt/panic.) The idea was for her to learn that fighting the rope/pulling back wasn’t fun & didn’t feel good, but a step forward released the pressure which felt better. We didn’t leave her tied all day, (just short 30 minutes +/-) per training session. We never released her when she was fighting the rope, only when she was calm & cooperative. She learned pretty quick, but persistent, patient, and consistent training, loads of daily contact & lots of love all help. Hang in there! It WILL get better and one day you’ll look back at how much you’ve learned, AND how you and GB survived it all!
Temple Granger is a cattle-whisperer. I don’t know if she does dairy cows, but you might google her & get some info/advise.
Good Luck!
12:51
pm
12:53
pm
1:17
pm
1:29
pm
1:52
pm
I know how it is milking a Jersey once a day – A great plan. Everyone is happy.
I have not read how/why the calf was removed, but can she be tied (a good thing) within licking distance from BP? This will alleviate the anxiety evident in the calf behavior and will (hopefully) re-establish the deep cow/calf bond. This will NOT cause Mastitis!
Then I would allow/observe this close-tying-re-bonding arrangement and decide if it safe to let calf back onto cow. which I imagine it will be. If all is well enough for your concerns, then resume your once-a-day milking and calf-hood enjoyment. Get yourself a rope halter/lead all-in-one for training GB. The one you have is fine for tying, but not for training.
2:11
pm
If you are building your herd that is fine, then I would build some really good calf/cow pens so that they do not need to be tied (all I see is a broken leg in the future or a hanging). Pens that are connected with alleyways, or common gates, are great. Then you are not catching or wrestling animals, just opening gates. Strong fences are wonderful things, and I cannot make them. Am very blessed to have hubby that can build good fences.
What kind of sore is on the cows udder, or is it on the teat itself? Mastitis can come from different factors… bacteria getting in teat end or trauma. Also from not getting milked out (too much milk left in one or more quarters, it is what the bacteria will feed on).
I think she (the calf) will see you as her feed source even if you do not sit with her. You “may” be creating another issue if you hang around too much (maybe she will not eat if alone???), not sure but seems like too much work. Animals will eat without much encouragement! Seems like it is all they do (other than poop, of course)
I would say a local farmer would be a great resource, hope none of my advice is hurting instead of helping. Tried not to give to much advice without seeing the whole situation.. My biggest question is… are you sure you “need to” keep her?
What a blessing to have your own fresh milk,
enjoy them, but do not make it harder than it needs to be.
I do enjoy reading from your site, and love the recipes!
D
3:16
pm
3:47
pm
http://www.familycow.proboards.com/index.cgi?board=preggers&action=display&thread=35692&page=1
This is more exciting than the goat photo!
4:55
pm
And try not to fret too much. Very upstanding people and cows are raised in major less-than-ideal situations!
6:01
pm
Glory Bee is a stubborn Swiss and it is now just going to take time, lots of time and lots of patience. Keep trying with the bucket of milk if you want her to drink it, if you could just leave it secured to a post or build a little stand around it with wood pieces or lumber to make it harder to tip the bucket over that might help. Right now she doesn’t associate the bucket with mama’s milk. We use to wean our bottle babies by 3 months to starter, water and hay. We used the mixing milk and water technique in the opposite way from above. Start with pure milk and gradually add water to it until there was no milk. Let her get over the seperation from BP for a few days before you get serious about breaking her to lead. Spend that time getting her use to you and you touching her. You are going to want to touch her every where eventually so that when you go to milk her she will already be use to it. Don’t force her, just be calm and gentle and cover a little more area each time. Brushing her is a good way to accomplish this. She will have certain spots that she can’t itch real well (middle of her forehead, behind the poll(horn area), around her tailhead and when she will let you, underneath her tummy for starters) and that brush will feel heavenly to her. Talk to her so she knows your voice, with a little luck you will be able to call her in from the pasture when she is older. Having had to get Brown Swiss calves weaned off bottle/bucket, I am envious that GB is already eating and drinking water on her own. When you decide to lead her again put Weston on the lead. He is strong enough to hold her and will be prepared for her antics. It is very important that she does not continue to get free of the humans in her life. It reinforces in her mind that she does not have to do what you want her to do, that she is stronger than you. Which she certainly will be, but the trick is to not let her know it. On another post someone had an excellent post telling you how to hold the rope to use your body to anchor her. The pulling her into a tight circle when she tries to run does work too, though it can take you a long time to get anywhere at first. Our calves were tied all the time and some were still quite stubborn about being led so it may be Glory Bee’s personality more than the way you did things.
BP’s sore could be from any number of things,, chapping comes to mind. I agree with a previous poster that the sore will not give her mastitis. Not milking that quarter could. If BP should get mastitis don’t feed the milk from that infected quarter to GB and don’t use it youself. BP would need medicine to treat the infection. When you milk out there would be hard strings in the milk and the udder/quarter would feel hard and possibly feverish. There have been studies done that show a connection between heifers being fed infected milk and later developing it. The thought is that the heifers spread it by nursing on each other (don’t have to worry about that one right now) or by nursing on themselves (yes some heifers do that) and it is dormant until they freshen. That Glory Bee was getting so rough could be because she is naturally that way or that she wasn’t getting enough milk when she was nursing.
Dairy cows have been bred/selected for the volume of milk they can produce. Their udders are large to accomplish that feat. A rough nurser, milking with old fashion bucket milkers and bad genes can contribute to the breakdown of the support muscles that keep the udder tucked up under the cow instead of dragging in the dirt. Beef cows are bred/selected on their mothering of one calf. Their udders are smaller and more compact. When a beef cow dries off her udder usually becomes smaller and less noticeable. On the other hand while BP’s udder was smaller when she was dry, it still was large and noticeable.
I think the matron of husbandry has lots of good advice and you may want to use her techniques in the future. But right now you need to get control of Glory Bee, then you can train her. I know you said GB was not happy but she doesn’t look that unhappy in the pictures. While she is pissed that you seperated her from BP she is not in a deep dark depression (or excessive misery). Her body language is good, ears up, curious about you, not standing with all four feet braced and pulling for all she is worth against the rope. There has been progress.
7:20
pm
7:57
pm
8:01
pm
Still sending those calming thoughts to Glory Bee.
Grammie
8:24
pm
I also agree, GB does not look depressed or hurt. She just seems MAD!!
In my opinion, it comes down to:
1) You need to be consistent and ALWAYS in charge, and
2) Respect & never underestimate an animal’s strength and intelligence.
Hang in there, YOU CAN DO IT!!
9:30
pm
Of course she is going to be aggressive if you withold her source of comfort and interfere with her natural instincts. She would probably calm right down if you let nature take it’s course.
9:34
pm
Now, as to controlling her, my neighbors had kids in 4-H and they always showed cattle. The way they tamed down their calves was to tie them, bridle to bridle, to a donkey or a mule. The donkey/mule is much stronger and forces the calf to walk with them not the other way around. The kid would still walk the calf every day but much of the ‘breaking’ was done by the mule. Not sure if Jake or Poky big enough. If they’re bigger than Glory Bee, it’s worth a trial.
9:42
pm
10:16
pm
As far as taming your wild beast here is how I used to do it:
I raised and showed beef cattle when I was in high school(so about 10 years ago!). I bought my special breed of heifers off of free range in Nevada when they were around 5-7 months old. They were big and had never been handled by a person other than getting a couple shots in a round pen and then released again.
Here is what we did:
They had halters put on them in a squeeze chute at the sale, so when I got them they at least had that going for them. When we got home with ‘em, we tied them in the barn with a rope lead that had a clip on the end. We tied a 5 gallon bucket to the wall for water and I fed them morning and night. They have to learn to depend on and trust you as the food source first. After a while ( a week or 2 depending on the animal), I would start scratching them, or attempting to scratch, at mealtimes. Then came the brushing. When I could completely touch them anywhere I wanted, pick up front feet, etc, we would go outside. We clipped another lead to their halter from the other side, and two of us would walk them around our fenced field. As time went on I could do it by myself.
It used to take about a month to get it all done, but I had to work about an hour a day before school and the same when I got home, then as many trips as I could make to the barn on my days off.
It’s hard but it does get better. Don’t let her give you the big sad calf eyes and cave in. She has to learn that you are the boss, it’s no fun to have her be twice as big and wild as a march hare!
You can do it, keep up the good work!
10:31
pm
Can you put a button on your posts so we don’t forget to go vote??
11:49
pm
It is geared towards calves in a commercial dairy, which you are not, but this is very close to what I was used to doing when I worked on a dairy farm and as a relief milker in high school and college so I feel comfortable suggesting it as a possible guideline for the feeding situation you’re in now. I like the idea of shared milking, although I have no experience with it I think it’s probably better for cow, calf and homesteader, but I’ve known plenty of cows weaned at GB’s age who led long, productive, healthy lives so I wouldn’t feel guilty for taking her off milk and putting her on a grain diet.
Please do consider removing the chunks of wood from where you tie her, I’d hate to see her hurt herself on them. I would snub her up more, I wouldn’t want her to be able to get around the post more than one to one and a half times, and I would want her to just be able to reach the ground with her nose but not any further. While she’s tied do pet her, brush her, get her used to having her feet handled, and feed her, but also get her used to having you control her movements. Poke her with your thumb to get her to step over, keep poking her until she does it, relax for a minute then ask her to step over again. If she’s setting back, stand by her rear leg, reach behind her and poke her heiny to prod her forward. If she jumps away let her, if she steps into your personal space poke her out of it, if she bumps you or even worse, tries to jump on you, freak out at her, yelling flapping and poking harder and whatnot until she moves well clear. You want her to learn if she’s going to challenge you like that you will become a screeching scary cow eater. See, boss cows move the other cows around, they don’t allow other cows too close, and if one dares push into HER then it is SO INCREDIBLY ON and they will get the beat down, cow style. Which may actually just be getting a kick or rammed in the side with the area of her head where her horns would be if she had any, but you get the idea.
You have to be the boss cow for this to be successful. By controlling her movements and not getting into pushing, pulling, shoving matches with her, which you will lose, and by doing this while she is solidly tied and cannot get away from you she doesn’t really know that you’re not as strong as she is and she will think you’re Boss Cow. I’ve worked with animals that were so solidly in the mindset that they were in charge that I had to reward just a weight shift at first
It would be so much easier if we could just feed them cookies and they’d follow along adoringly, doing whatever we politely asked them to do, but animals’ brains just don’t work that way. They do things to each other that we may think of as mean, but the message is clear, everyone understands each other and once established they only rarely have to repeat the message.
12:21
pm
4:21
pm
Good luck!
5:57
am
I don’t know cows, but with all the other animals I know, consistency is key. So if she is a pain in the ass, you have to invest a little more time to be in her face until she is calm again, you can’t let her get away with scaring you off even once.
11:54
am
She came to us, our Stella, from the Discalced Carmelite Nuns of the Byzantine Catholic Church – Holy Annunciation Monastery in Sugarloaf, PA at 12 weeks old. She was already weaned from the bottle and was SUCH a people loving little calf, and she has remained such. My goats, those who are bottle babies, are awesome, and those who have been dam raised, not so much. . .
I don’t want to milk twice a day, but I believe a good option is to bottle feed from birth and then let the calf in with the dam once a day, and most calves, I am told, can transition.
12:20
pm
First of all, watch how high you tie her. We had a heifer once that we tied only long enough to get the semen tank (we bred by A.I.) and by the time we got back, she had pulled in such a way that it broke her neck. We learned later that the best height to tie livestock is at nose level.
Second, by 6 weeks of age, or when she is consuming 1 pound of grain a day, you can wean her off of milk. If she is drinking water from a bucket, you can give her milk replacer in a bucket once a day. She should start consuming more grain and hay than milk at this point, anyway. Often, calves won’t eat their grain if it is wet, and I have never had luck mixing milk in grain, but most calves will drink milk from a bucket.
Also, keeping her tied will help break her to lead quickly. As she is tied, brush her. Imitate mama’s grooming technique by brushing in short strokes, both with and against the hair. Endorphines release during grooming and is a wonderful tool in bonding. Humming and speaking to her will also help her associate this endorphine-flooded-great-feeling with you and your voice.
Hope this helps! Your 4H’er should have WONDERFUL methods in helping you out, too!