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9:10 am
December 28, 2008
OfflineAny good prom stories out there? (Well, ones suitable for a general audience!!)
I wasn't particularly interested in doing the prom thing. Too many other things to do. (Really? What a weird kid!) But, we finally figured out that it was not the prom itself that was the issue, but the DRESS!
Just by chance I was wading through some clearance items in the basement, waiting on Mom to do something of world-wide importance upstairs. On that rack was the MOST beautiful dress I'd ever seen in my life! (Bear in mind that this was the early 60's.) Light royal blue taffeta, the bell full-length skirt, the sorta overlayed bodice thing that looked like a crop top over a long skirt - all very Audry Hepburn. A very few bits of lace and seed pearls adorning the top part. And it fit perfectly.
Even Mom approved, except for the part about me being in the BASEMENT! She agreed that it was a great find, but that she had expected to pay a bit more than $4 for my first formal dress! For me the best part was that I never did have to shop for a dress!
9:48 am
November 8, 2008
OfflineI went to my junior year Prom with a fever of 103 and didn't tell Mom that I was sick. Two days after that I had a higher fever and delirium. Broke out in a measles-like rash. Sick as a dog but recovered soon. What an experience!
12:43 pm
September 26, 2010
OfflineI didn't get to go to either of my Proms, but my children both did. My daughter's junior year she was going with a guy who hadn't been to the house yet. I had a luncheon on the day of, about an hour and a half away, to hear one of my favorite authors speak, and get her autograph. So, I took my daughter the night before to have her nails done, put her hair in rollers, etc. I knew I would be home in enough time to finish her hair and help her get ready, but that was all.
Anyway, dear daughter got it in her head that the house wasn't clean enough (it was fine, really, but she was nervous) for her date to see it. So, she cleaned… and RUINED her nails. Then the bawling started, as she didn't have her license yet, and didn't know what to do, knowing I spent money I really couldn't afford for her french tip creations! So, big brother to the rescue, who happened to be home from college that weekend. He drove her back to the nail salon, in her flip flops, pajama pants, tee shirt and hair in curlers, with his wallet ready to get her nails fixed so she would stop crying! The nail tech was so surprised and touched by her brother's love she did the redo for free, but made her promise to go to Wal-mart and buy some gloves if she was going to do housework with "good nails!"
The only reason I found out, was because my son had a big old NOISY Isuzu Trooper, and when I called on her cell, I could tell my daughter was out with her brother, and I couldn't imagine where she would go and be seen in curlers! It certainly was a memorable story to tack onto her first Prom experience!
Oh, and my daughter's date was so captivated by her beauty he didn't even look at the house!
That was an awesome story, Blyss! My only story about prom is dull one to that. I got picked up for prom in a limo. I was floored! Anyway, we got to the prom so early that we just cruised around Washington,DC for about an hour. The city looked pretty from there but I remember just wanting to roll down the window to see. Told you it was dull but Pete asked for a story and its the only one I had. 
9:05 am
September 26, 2010
OfflineI think rolling around DC in a limo is a great memory!
I am excited to see the pictures, Suzanne. My daughter went for the "Princess" look both years too. My son just did the normal mens wear… no top hats and canes, though there were some that really put it all out there. One of my daughters friends went all white tux, with tails, top hat, etc. It was very dramatic looking as he is a darker skinned young man with black hair. It made a nice contrast.
It was/is a cold, rainy and windy weekend here, so I hope the weather was better there.
Did anyone have "After Prom" events? Back in the day (aging myself) after Prom you went to Lake Michigan… usually for the night,. Now, with parents helping their students make more responsible decisions, they have started having After Prom events to keep the kids in the party spirit, but more under control.
My son's Junior Prom had an amazing after event. The kids were locked into the high school gym all night, where they ate pizza and snacks, played games (including electronic set up for rousing rounds of Guitar Hero and such,) and some napped on the tumbling mats. Then at around 5:00 AM a chartered bus came and the kids climbed on for a drive to Chicago (about 2 hours from here) where they and a couple other Chicago area schools had all of Six Flags amusement park booked just for them. I remember my son coming home at 8 PM or so and literally falling face down onto his bed and snores emitting immediately! He still wears his "I survived my all night Prom event" t-shirt, and he just graduated college last weekend! I guess there are some things to be really proud of, huh?
The next year's Junior class planned bowling afterwards. We ended up getting a call around 11 from my son and his girlfriend at the time asking if some of the crowd could come over for a bonfire at our place instead. That was actually a really fun time. I rushed around looking for quick snacks, made iced tea and lemonade, and was glad I always keep marshmellows around for our spontanious bonfires. There ended up being about 30 kids or so who came, and everyone was very well behaved. I got to see most of the girls dresses before they went into a bedroom or bathroom to change, and I enjoyed my own little fashion show. There are a lot of different styles of dresses the kids wear to prom now!
For both of my daughters After Proms they went by bus to Kalamazoo (yes, there is really a Kalamazoo, and it is actually our closest "big" city) to a YMCA where they were locked in all night. They swam, played games and just hung out. She had a good time, but I think would have liked the amusement park better! LOL
10:15 am
December 28, 2008
OfflineWe didn't have any "after" events planned, which worked out well for me since all I wanted to do was go home!
Both proms I attended were more or less disasters. I really didn't want to go, but one was a mercy date – a good friend of Mom's had a son a year younger, so I was arm twisted into going with him to his JUNIOR prom when I was a senior. I understood that it was a good thing to do, but was naturally quite miserable with all those YOUNGER kids!
For my own prom, some friends decided that I really needed to attend. So, foolishly, I told them that they were in charge of finding me a date because I just didn't care. And they did. You can imagine how it worked out having basically a blind date for the prom!
Oh, well – all part of character building. At least, by the time we got to formal dances at college, I was actually dating people I wanted to go with! And had a new dress… 
10:37 am
September 26, 2010
Offlineahhhh Pete… I feel for you, but at least you had the experience. I am happier living through my kids I guess. My mother wouldn't allow me to go to my Proms because I didn't have a date, and back then, you went as a couple or not at all!
Funny, because my son went his junior year alone, and hung out with friends… a few of his close buddies went without a date, but went with his girlfriend for his Senior year. My daughter was the opposite and went with some other girlfriends her Senior year instead of a date. Both kids had fun both years, so it was good all around!
My younger sister did the "mercy date" thing for her Junior Prom, going with a son of someone I was working for. Considering my sister was a jock, hated dressing up, and would generally only wear a dress for a funeral or wedding, it was a REAL mercy date!
I was married by this point, but do remember being a tad jealous that she got to go to a prom! LOL
That which doesn't kill us makes us stronger? ![]()
10:59 am
February 10, 2009
OfflineWell, I was so horse crazy all through high school that I didn't attend any of them and can honestly say that I didn't care. I had absolutely no use for any boys that didn't know how to use a hoof pick back then. …kinda still don't actually to a point, though it's more of a case of I have a bit 'more' use for em if they have some idea. Time does mellow all attitudes eh?
I was working for a trainer and I was at a horse show for our senior prom, and that was fine with me. I was earning money, (though not much) and doing what I loved so it was all good.
12:53 pm
July 24, 2010
OfflineI'm somewhat ambivalent about my "prom"—or lack there of. We were not allowed to have a prom because of the fear that there might be an "incident". One more memory of the civil right's era. However, since I didn't have a boyfriend, and certainly would have been too timid to attend alone, it may have been a blessing for me at least.
I didn't go and didn't really care to. My folks didn't believe in dancing (religious reasons) but I could have went if I wanted to. Some of my children went … said it was a lot of hype… but they were glad they went.
Now I've got pictures of former girlfriends hanging on my boys arms in their scrapbooks!![]()
I went to a school that was 500 kids K-12 (and it was all in 1 building…elementary separated from the jr/high school by the gym), so it was very easy to attend all 4 years…even if it meant going as friends to someone who was a junior or senior.
They weren't extravagant by any means!! It was like any other Friday night dance (since the whole high school was there anyways!), but the gym was decorated and we were dressed up! Our group would go to dinner before the prom (which was in the nearest city that had a restaurant…15 miles 1 way or 25 miles the other), dancing, then hanging out at someone's house afterwards.
My friends and I didn't have qualms of switching out dresses from past years or making our own….very little money was spent…or I wouldn't have been going!
Many memories were made…some that are still talked about amongst my high school friends some 20 (ok, maybe a few more than that!) years later :)
I never went to prom. But then I only went to 10th grade (went to college after that). I would have been too shy to have a good time anyway. Prom has been HUGE to all my kids, so I get to live vicariously through them and because I never went to prom, it's so fun for me to be part of it for them. There are several school dances throughout the year, and they go, but this is the Special one. Lots of tradition in a prom. I love it, even though I never went to one myself! I've always been on the "boy" end so it was fun this year to take Morgan dress shopping. And have a boy buy the prom ticket and the flowers and the pictures, LOL. I am always on that end! Ahhhh, nice to have a girl coming up……!
8:33 pm
November 9, 2010
OfflineMy senior year prom I went with a boy I was pretty crazy about. His mother, a good Asian Indian woman, couldn't stand me because I was NOT Asian Indian, and by the time the pictures came in, he and I weren't seeing each other anymore and I later found out she pitched the pictures. But I had a good time!
My daughter is a sophomore at an all-girls high school (St. Louis has quite a few single-sex high schools, off the top of my head I can think of 8 girls' schools and 6 boys' schools). They go to their own dances with dates or in small groups, and sometimes go to dances at the boys' schools as friends or with boyfriends. Once a year they have a used dress sale. Each girl brings her "used" dress(es) in and they sell for $10 or $20. She gets half of the money and the other half goes to the cinderella project, along with any dresses that don't sell. Daughter came home from the last sale having sold two of her dresses and getting $10, and then putting that and the $20 I sent to school with her into getting three "new to her" dresses. I'm okay with that!
We didn't buy tickets or buy pictures….the prom, including pictures, was paid for by the junior and senior classes. I think it had a lot to do with the small sized classes…I wonder if it's still that way?
11:38 pm
December 28, 2008
OfflineI know, I know! It's pretty horrid to laugh at someone else's misery, but I always thought it wasn't that big a deal, so why get all upset over it. Especially when every one of the guys got their tux from the same rental store!!
Maybe the gals these days don't obsess over such things any more. And the guys are adding more flair to their attire than was common back in the day.
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